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May 3rd, 2007
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Where Have All the Leaders Gone?

By Lee Iacocca with Catherine Whitney

 

Had Enough?

 

Am I the only guy in this country who's fed up with what's happening? Where the hell is our outrage? We should be screaming bloody murder. We've got a gang of clueless bozos steering our ship of state right over a cliff, we've got corporate gangsters stealing us blind, and we can't even clean up after a hurricane much less build a hybrid car. But instead of getting mad, everyone sits around and nods their heads when the politicians say, "Stay the course."

 

Stay the course? You've got to be kidding. This is America, not the damned Titanic. I'll give you a sound bite: Throw the bums out!

 

You might think I'm getting senile, that I've gone off my rocker, and maybe I have. But someone has to speak up. I hardly recognize this country anymore. The President of the United States is given a free pass to ignore the Constitution, tap our phones, and lead us to war on a pack of lies. Congress responds to record deficits by passing a huge tax cut for the wealthy (thanks, but I don't need it). The most famous business leaders are not the innovators but the guys in handcuffs. While we're fiddling in Iraq, the Middle East is burning and nobody seems to know what to do. And the press is waving pom-poms instead of asking hard questions. That's not the promise of America my parents and yours traveled across the ocean for. I've had enough. How about you?

 

I'll go a step further. You can't call yourself a patriot if you're not outraged. This is a fight I'm ready and willing to have.

 

My friends tell me to calm down. They say, "Lee, you're eighty-two years old. Leave the rage to the young people." I'd love to as soon as I can pry them away from their iPods for five seconds and get them to pay attention. I'm going to speak up because it's my patriotic duty. I think people will listen to me. They say I have a reputation as a straight shooter. So I'll tell you how I see it, and it's not pretty, but at least it's real. I'm hoping to strike a nerve in those young folks who say they don't vote because they don't trust politicians to represent their interests. Hey, America, wake up. These guys work for us.

 

Who Are These Guys, Anyway?

 

Why are we in this mess? How did we end up with this crowd in Washington? Well, we voted for them or at least some of us did. But I'll tell you what we didn't do. We didn't agree to suspend the Constitution. We didn't agree to stop asking questions or demanding answers. Some of us are sick and tired of people who call free speech treason. Where I come from that's a dictatorship, not a democracy.

 

And don't tell me it's all the fault of right-wing Republicans or liberal Democrats. That's an intellectually lazy argument, and it's part of the reason we're in this stew. We're not just a nation of factions. We're a people. We share common principles and ideals. And we rise and fall together.

 

Where are the voices of leaders who can inspire us to action and make us stand taller? What happened to the strong and resolute party of Lincoln? What happened to the courageous, populist party of FDR and Truman? There was a time in this country when the voices of great leaders lifted us up and made us want to do better. Where have all the leaders gone?

 

The Test of a Leader

 

I've never been Commander in Chief, but I've been a CEO. I understand a few things about leadership at the top. I've figured out nine points - not ten (I don't want people accusing me of thinking I'm Moses). I call them the "Nine C’s of Leadership" They're not fancy or complicated. Just clear, obvious qualities that every true leader should have. We should look at how the current administration stacks up. Like it or not, this crew is going to be around until January 2009. Maybe we can learn something before we go to the polls in 2008. Then let's be sure we use the leadership test to screen the candidates who say they want to run the country. It's up to us to choose wisely.

 

So, here's my C list:

 

A leader has to show CURIOSITY. He has to listen to people outside of the "Yes, sir" crowd in his inner circle. He has to read voraciously, because the world is a big, complicated place. George W. Bush brags about never reading a newspaper. "I just scan the headlines," he says. Am I hearing this right? He's the President of the United States and he never reads a newspaper? Thomas Jefferson once said, "Were it left to me to decide whether we should have a government without newspapers, or newspapers without a government, I should not hesitate for a moment to prefer the latter." Bush disagrees. As long as he gets his daily hour in the gym, with Fox News piped through the sound system, he's ready to go.

 

If a leader never steps outside his comfort zone to hear different ideas, he grows stale. If he doesn't put his beliefs to the test, how does he know he's right? The inability to listen is a form of arrogance. It means either you think you already know it all, or you just don't care. Before the 2006 election, George Bush made a big point of saying he didn't listen to the polls. Yeah, that's what they all say when the polls stink. But maybe he should have listened, because 70 percent of the people were saying he was on the wrong track. It took a "thumping" on election day to wake him up, but even then you got the feeling he wasn't listening so much as he was calculating how to do a better job of convincing everyone he was right.

 

A leader has to be CREATIVE, go out on a limb, be willing to try something different. You know, think outside the box. George Bush prides himself on never changing, even as the world around him is spinning out of control. God forbid someone should accuse him of flip-flopping. There's a disturbingly messianic fervor to his certainty. Senator Joe Biden recalled a conversation he had with Bush a few months after our troops marched into Baghdad. Joe was in the Oval Office outlining his concerns to the President - the explosive mix of Shiite and Sunni, the disbanded Iraqi army, the problems securing the oil fields. "The President was serene," Joe recalled. "He told me he was sure that we were on the right course and that all would be well. 'Mr. President,' I finally said, 'how can you be so sure when you don't yet know all the facts?'" Bush then reached over and put a steadying hand on Joe's shoulder. "My instincts," he said. "My instincts." Joe was flabbergasted. He told Bush, "Mr. President, your instincts aren't good enough." Joe Biden sure didn't think the matter was settled. And, as we all know now, it wasn't.

 

Leadership is all about managing change - whether you're leading a company or leading a country. Things change, and you get creative. You adapt. Maybe Bush was absent the day they covered that at Harvard Business School.

 

A leader has to COMMUNICATE. I'm not talking about running off at the mouth or spouting sound bites. I'm talking about facing reality and telling the truth. Nobody in the current administration seems to know how to talk straight anymore. Instead, they spend most of their time trying to convince us that things are not really as bad as they seem. I don't know if it's denial or dishonesty, but it can start to drive you crazy after a while. Communication has to start with telling the truth, even when it's painful. The war in Iraq has been, among other things, a grand failure of communication. Bush is like the boy who didn't cry wolf when the wolf was at the door. After years of being told that all is well, even as the casualties and chaos mount, we've stopped listening to him.

 

A leader has to be a person of CHARACTER. That means knowing the difference between right and wrong and having the guts to do the right thing. Abraham Lincoln once said, "If you want to test a man's character, give him power." George Bush has a lot of power. What does it say about his character? Bush has shown a willingness to take bold action on the world stage because he has the power, but he shows little regard for the grievous consequences. He has sent our troops (not to mention hundreds of thousands of innocent Iraqi citizens) to their deaths - for what? To build our oil reserves? To avenge his daddy because Saddam Hussein once tried to have him killed? To show his daddy he's tougher? The motivations behind the war in Iraq are questionable, and the execution of the war has been a disaster. A man of character does not ask a single soldier to die for a failed policy.

 

A leader must have COURAGE. I'm talking about balls. (That even goes for female leaders.) Swagger isn't courage. Tough talk isn't courage. George Bush comes from a blue-blooded Connecticut family, but he likes to talk like a cowboy. You know, My gun is bigger than your gun. Courage in the twenty-first century doesn't mean posturing and bravado. Courage is a commitment to sit down at the negotiating table and talk.

 

If you're a politician, courage means taking a position even when you know it will cost you votes. Bush can't even make a public appearance unless the audience has been handpicked and sanitized. He did a series of so-called town hall meetings last year, in auditoriums packed with his most devoted fans. The questions were all softballs.

 

To be a leader you've got to have CONVICTION - a fire in your belly. You've got to have passion. You've got to really want to get something done. How do you measure fire in the belly? Bush has set the all-time record for number of vacation days taken by a U.S. President - four hundred and counting. He'd rather clear brush on his ranch than immerse himself in the business of governing. He even told an interviewer that the high point of his presidency so far was catching a seven-and-a-half-pound perch in his hand-stocked lake.

 

It's no better on Capitol Hill. Congress was in session only ninety-seven days in 2006. That's eleven days less than the record set in 1948, when President Harry Truman coined the term do-nothing Congress. Most people would expect to be fired if they worked so little and had nothing to show for it. But Congress managed to find the time to vote itself a raise. Now, that's not leadership.

 

A leader should have CHARISMA. I'm not talking about being flashy. Charisma is the quality that makes people want to follow you. It's the ability to inspire. People follow a leader because they trust him. That's my definition of charisma. Maybe George Bush is a great guy to hang out with at a barbecue or a ball game. But put him at a global summit where the future of our planet is at stake, and he doesn't look very presidential. Those frat-boy pranks and the kidding around he enjoys so much don't go over that well with world leaders. Just ask German Chancellor Angela Merkel, who received an unwelcome shoulder massage from our President at a G-8 Summit. When he came up behind her and started squeezing, I thought she was going to go right through the roof.

 

A leader has to be COMPETENT. That seems obvious, doesn't it? You've got to know what you're doing. More important than that, you've got to surround yourself with people who know what they're doing. Bush brags about being our first MBA President. Does that make him competent? Well, let's see. Thanks to our first MBA President, we've got the largest deficit in history, Social Security is on life support, and we've run up a half-a-trillion-dollar price tag (so far) in Iraq. And that's just for starters. A leader has to be a problem solver, and the biggest problems we face as a nation seem to be on the back burner.

 

You can't be a leader if you don't have COMMON SENSE. I call this Charlie Beacham's rule. When I was a young guy just starting out in the car business, one of my first jobs was as Ford's zone manager in Wilkes-Barre, Pennsylvania. My boss was a guy named Charlie Beacham, who was the East Coast regional manager. Charlie was a big Southerner, with a warm drawl, a huge smile, and a core of steel. Charlie used to tell me, "Remember, Lee, the only thing you've got going for you as a human being is your ability to reason and your common sense. If you don't know a dip of horse**** from a dip of vanilla ice cream, you'll never make it." George Bush doesn't have common sense. He just has a lot of sound bites. You know~Mr.they'll-welcome-us-as-liberators-no-child-left-behind-heck-of-a- job-Brownie-mission-accomplished Bush.

 

Former President Bill Clinton once said, "I grew up in an alcoholic home. I spent half my childhood trying to get into the reality-based world - and I like it here."

 

I think our current President should visit the real world once in a while.

 

The Biggest C is CRISIS

 

Leaders are made, not born. Leadership is forged in times of crisis. It's easy to sit there with your feet up on the desk and talk theory. Or send someone else's kids off to war when you've never seen a battlefield yourself. It's another thing to lead when your world comes tumbling down.

 

On September 11, 2001, we needed a strong leader more than any other time in our history. We needed a steady hand to guide us out of the ashes. Where was George Bush? He was reading a story about a pet goat to kids in Florida when he heard about the attacks. He kept sitting there for twenty minutes with a baffled look on his face. It's all on tape. You can see it for yourself. Then, instead of taking the quickest route back to Washington and immediately going on the air to reassure the panicked people of this country, he decided it wasn't safe to return to the White House. He basically went into hiding for the day - and he told Vice President Dick Cheney to stay put in his bunker. We were all frozen in front of our TVs, scared out of our wits, waiting for our leaders to tell us that we were going to be okay, and there was nobody home. It took Bush a couple of days to get his bearings and devise the right photo op at Ground Zero.

 

That was George Bush's moment of truth, and he was paralyzed. And what did he do when he'd regained his composure? He led us down the road to Iraq - a road his own father had considered disastrous when he was President. But Bush didn't listen to Daddy. He listened to a higher father. He prides himself on being faith based, not reality based. If that doesn't scare the crap out of you, I don't know what will.

 

A Hell of a Mess

 

So here's where we stand. We're immersed in a bloody war with no plan for winning and no plan for leaving. We're running the biggest deficit in the history of the country. We're losing the manufacturing edge to Asia, while our once-great companies are getting slaughtered by health care costs. Gas prices are skyrocketing, and nobody in power has a coherent energy policy. Our schools are in trouble. Our borders are like sieves. The middle class is being squeezed every which way. These are times that cry out for leadership.

 

But when you look around, you've got to ask: "Where have all the leaders gone?" Where are the curious, creative communicators? Where are the people of character, courage, conviction, competence, and common sense? I may be a sucker for alliteration, but I think you get the point.

 

Name me a leader who has a better idea for homeland security than making us take off our shoes in airports and throw away our shampoo? We've spent billions of dollars building a huge new bureaucracy, and all we know how to do is react to things that have already happened.

 

Name me one leader who emerged from the crisis of Hurricane Katrina. Congress has yet to spend a single day evaluating the response to the hurricane, or demanding accountability for the decisions that were made in the crucial hours after the storm. Everyone's hunkering down, fingers crossed, hoping it doesn't happen again. Now, that's just crazy. Storms happen. Deal with it. Make a plan. Figure out what you're going to do the next time.

 

Name me an industry leader who is thinking creatively about how we can restore our competitive edge in manufacturing. Who would have believed that there could ever be a time when "the Big Three" referred to Japanese car companies? How did this happen - and more important, what are we going to do about it?

 

Name me a government leader who can articulate a plan for paying down the debt, or solving the energy crisis, or managing the health care problem. The silence is deafening. But these are the crises that are eating away at our country and milking the middle class dry.

 

I have news for the gang in Congress. We didn't elect you to sit on your asses and do nothing and remain silent while our democracy is being hijacked and our greatness is being replaced with mediocrity. What is everybody so afraid of? That some bobble-head on Fox News will call them a name? Give me a break. Why don't you guys show some spine for a change?

 

Had Enough?

 

Hey, I'm not trying to be the voice of gloom and doom here. I'm trying to light a fire. I'm speaking out because I have hope. I believe in America. In my lifetime I've had the privilege of living through some of America's greatest moments. I've also experienced some of our worst crises - the Great Depression, World War II, the Korean War, the Kennedy assassination, the Vietnam War, the 1970s oil crisis, and the struggles of recent years culminating with 9/11. If I've learned one thing, it's this: You don't get anywhere by standing on the sidelines waiting for somebody else to take action. Whether it's building a better car or building a better future for our children, we all have a role to play. That's the challenge I'm raising in this book. It's a call to action for people who, like me, believe in America. It's not too late, but it's getting pretty close. So let's shake off the horse**** and go to work. Let's tell 'em all we've had enough.

 

Excerpted from Where Have All the Leaders Gone? Copyright (c) 2007 by Lee Iacocca. All rights reserved.

 

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November 11th, 2006
11:06 pm

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White and Nerdy

LMFAO!!
I'm rollin!!

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09:35 pm

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Because he had something to say, damnit!
hehehehehe*SNORT*hehehehehe

Well, I was sitting here minding my own business, when suddenly the speaker phone cuts on. Yes, the cat decided to make a phone call. And, oh!, did he have a lot to say when I dislodged him from said phone to cut it back off. He kept trying to put his big ol' paw right back on it, and speak clearly into the mic.

The commotion brought another cat to investigate. Maybe he has something to say as well? So now I have cats, solid black and solid white, sprawled with their thoughts, the phone between them. One in a huff, one, well...contemplative. It is as if the one is casting a shadow of himself. lol!

I feel so...chastised. Yes, I am receiving the ultimate feline rebuff. The Back. heh.

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October 30th, 2006
08:42 pm

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Gone Daddy Gone

hahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahahaha*snort*hahahahahahahahaha

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August 30th, 2006
01:42 pm

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No fuckin' way...
Just watching this made me shake. I wanted to snatch his ass off of that bike!


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August 27th, 2006
10:46 am

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Can I ask you a personal question?
Do you wash your tongue?

Good lord, the things that come up around here these days.

But it was a real question/issue, I suppose. Seems most people don't really pay attention to the ol' tongue there. Maybe run the toothbrush over it. Or for the aggressive, use a tongue scraper? But how about getting a washcloth in there and really tackling that puppy? Ha!
Gotta get those taste buds cleaned off! You can't taste everything fully if you gots build-up coating 'em! And make sure you get the sides and waaaay back!

You know, it is one thing to do this kinda shit to yourself. But doing it to someone else is just beyond the pale. *shudder* And in this instance, I don't feel like having the repercussions (Go on, guess what that would be...a washcloth down your throat...).

Hmmm....*smack* I feel somehow...lighter...

LMFAO!!!

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July 25th, 2006
02:49 pm

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Schrodinger's cat
I'm not dead
until I look in the box.

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July 11th, 2006
01:12 pm

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Kelly - Shoes

Priceless. Just priceless.

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June 27th, 2006
07:33 pm

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Because I love you
I bring you a funny


the show with zefrank

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June 22nd, 2006
12:32 pm

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What does today feel like?
Like every other day.

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June 15th, 2006
03:51 pm

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Pimpin'!
Okay, if you are so silly that you do not yet have [info]cmpriest on your friends page for a daily read, then you at least need to catch this entry for a link to some of her writing. She is so totally charming and funny, and yet writes creepy shit like that!!
Whoa! How cool can one lady be?!?
Aw...I sound all fan-girl squeally about her!
Cool!

Now, go read!!
Damn it!

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11:26 am

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Missing in action???
A VERY HAPPY BIRTHDAY to [info]soldier_heart

Where ever you may be, I hope your Birthday is special and well celebrated, love!!

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11:01 am

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Now who knew...
I'd go get all caught off guard and cry.

Current Mood: good, mostly

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June 13th, 2006
02:44 pm

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A challenge?
The universe is attempting a challenge...to see if I will remain in my unreasonably good mood...

Despite the fact that I waited two and a half hours for lunch to be delivered! And I am still sitting here...un-fed. No delivery to be had. I will not be eating lunch today. It has been decreed by the gods of chinese food delivery.

Current Mood: hungry

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01:45 pm

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I am such a simple person.
It takes so little to please me.

I get to wear jeans to work tomorrow.

*sigh*

Ah, the joy. The rapture.

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11:36 am

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If *that's* the case....
Well!!!

It seems that my soul mate stirred up quite a bit of venom by sharing this video gem! And so it is with great glee that I continue the trend! I bring you childhood-memory-stealing, innocence-shredding, no-good-clean-fun-for-miles-around, Pooh Worshiping Satan!!

I guess the people I work with have one foot in the pit already...lol! Seems that everyone here just laughed their asses off...

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June 1st, 2006
04:07 pm

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oh, Wandering One!
A very HAPPY BIRTHDAY to [info]night__watch

May it be most enjoyable, love!

Current Mood: cheerful

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May 22nd, 2006
09:18 am

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Hatred fomenting
I am developing a deep and abiding hatred for someone I have never met. Someone who, if I met, I hope I would have the opportunity to do bodily harm to and then watch die.

I have enough trouble escaping the demons that feel the need to stalk my mind an plant horrid images there against my will. I need no one on this planet placing fodder in my path. And those that chose to do so simply need to be the recipients of the outflow of the evil that I am most likely capable of but have never been able to, and would rather choose not to, express.

Yesterday I was able to stay ahead of most of the foulness that chased my mind if I kept my speed high enough, and the music (and my voice) loud enough. Today I don't have those luxuries.

So I will indulge in the hatred. And for each unbidden image I will attempt to replace it with one of this persons death instead.

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Current Mood: enraged
Current Music: blood pounding in my head, why?
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May 18th, 2006
12:41 pm

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Bodies in motion
I am finally going back to the gym. Not to the classes yet. I am just walking. I get on the treadmill and try to zone out for a while.

What I am finding is that movement catches my eye as I walk. I have a radio on that I am listening to, so I am off in my own little bubble there, when something will draw my eye. It may be someone walking by, or operating of one of the machines around me. What is interesting to me is the fact that all this goes on constantly, but it is suddenly just another movement in a sea of activity that captures my attention.

I have become fascinated with this, and what special something draws me so inexorably.

For example, while walking I am surrounded by others doing the same thing, or jogging, or running. It is just there. A bland and boring landscape. Until there is suddenly someone that catches my attention from the corner of my eye, something about the way they move that separates them and that fascinates me; that makes it difficult for me to not watch them at whatever they are doing.

And it isn’t that this is the buffest person in the room, or anything.

At the gym there is an endless stream of people at any level of fitness. I have even come to realize that fitness cannot be defined in a universal sense. It is a unique status to each individual body, and what is a fit state for one person perhaps is not even close to what another may define for themselves. There is just so much that makes us different from one another that it is unfair to compare any one body to another the way we do for, oh, a magazine or such.

I think what is so riveting by each of the different people is that they have a rhythm to their movement, and a seeming comfort within their bodies, and their use of their body. And it becomes mesmerizing.

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Current Mood: curious

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May 17th, 2006
11:14 am

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Ha! Promises!
Comcast hath visited my home and declared..."Thou shalt have internet tonight!"

I'd better! The bitch needs her fix! This is my fucking therapy, damn it!

Current Location: work
Current Mood: hopeful

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